1.SMOOTH OPERATOR/PLAYER: This brother thinks he is God’s gift to women,
he is calculating, well spoken ,tactical. A smooth operator. He goes about proposing
to ladies and convincing them, it is a special mystical attraction, something beautiful ,
beyond you and I, and for the very spiritual ladies ,it is the will of God, only to go back
on his word when he sees another lady he believes is better than the last one. He has a
sugar coated tongue and can talk himself out of any situation. "It is you not me,"
" i just need sometime alone to get myself together", " i don't think, i am good enough for you"
Most times he even extorts money from the ladies , promising to give it back because his check
has been delayed, his clients has not paid, his dog died or in the name of God’s will. From such, run.
2.THE PERVERT:To the freakish and wayward lady he may appear fun to be with, he is always talking about sexually related topics and cracking dirty jokes, he indulges in pornographic materials, he believes women are meant to cook and be slept with only. He believes sex is a recreation, and so pays no mind to how many partners he has had, would ask for sex before marriage and has no plans to buy a ring but prefers a live in lover and would simply claim it is a test of compatibility. Most of his friends are just like him, perverts!; they would gather after work and talk about their many victorious conquests and if he eventually decides to marry,getting married to this brother would lead you down the path of heartbreak,misery, sin and disease.
3. MUMMY’S BOY:This mummy's boy is in most cases a carbon copy of his mother and is tied to her Apron. All decisions have to be made by his mother, mummy said this, mummy said that, he would constantly compare you to his mother.You would soon discover that you are married to his mother. Why you should also never get married to a man who has no regard for his mother, don’t put yourself in the bondage of having a mother in law influenced marriage. This group also includes the weakling, who cannot put his foot down but would allow all members of his family treat his wife like a foot mat, seeing nothing wrong in the disrespect of his wife by his friends, and family alike. This kind of marriage is very heartbreaking
as the wife might eventually lose all self esteem and worth or be in a constant battle with her own extended family.
4.WORKAHOLIC:This brother is always chasing money at the expense of having good relationship with even his family members, in some cases he may be a nice man, but his priority is first any thing that brings money even at the expense of having a good relationship with anyone even God, you would constantly feel alone in that marriage and you would have the sole responsibility of raising your kids. He would give you money but money we know is not everything. Run from the workhaholic
5.THE LONE RANGER:This Man (lone Ranger) has issues with all his family members , his place of work and he does things solely on his own.He is his own mentor and he looks up to nobody, he rates himself by himself for himself. This type of man is one of the most dangerous men to marry because your life, career, vision, everything would be at his mercies. This kind of man also tend to be abusive because they are answerable to no one but themselves.
6.THE DICTATOR:This brother is also close to the lone ranger, he seems to be nice and considerate sometimes but afterwards you discover that the only opinion that counts is his. His words are louder than his actions. He has his whole life planned out and you are supposed to just fit in or there would be trouble, he sees your thoughts, ideas and opinions as inferior to his. He is a vision killer. marrying you would just be something on his bucket list, then you would also need to fulfill another , which is all what he believes and wants you to be to him. He is simply a dictator not a husband.This kind of man would also occasionally hit his wife or fiancee.( Let abuse be a tie breaker in whatever relationship you are in).Sometimes this brother comes around with a drinking addiction, or drug habit. From such flee.
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